Prepare for a tricky conversation with your child

beginner⏱ Rough guide only: 30 minutes

Last reviewed by Amara Lewis

How can AI help me talk to my child about something difficult?

Tell Claude your child's age and the topic, and ask for age-appropriate opening words, likely questions with simple honest answers, and phrases to avoid. It's a helpful rehearsal; for grief, illness or safeguarding worries, also use specialist support services.

Copy-and-paste prompt

Swap the bits in [square brackets] for your own details.

I need to talk to my [age]-year-old about [topic, e.g. a family illness, moving house, online safety]. Suggest age-appropriate words to start the conversation, likely questions they'll ask with honest simple answers, and what to avoid saying.

How to do it

  1. Open Claude and start a new chat.
  2. Copy the prompt below and replace everything in [square brackets] with your details.
  3. Read the answer and ask follow-up questions to adjust it.
  4. Save or print the result you're happy with.

What a good answer looks like

Illustrative example written by the AI My Day team to show the kind of answer you can expect. Real results vary.

Topic: moving house, age 6 Opening: "We've got some big news. We're going to live in a new house, and I want to tell you all about it." Likely questions: • "Will I still see my friends?" – "Some friends will be further away, but we'll plan visits and video calls." • "Can I take my toys?" – "Yes, every one. You can even help pack them." Avoid: promising things you can't control, or telling them not to be sad.

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Claude

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Top tips

  • Trusted sources like your school or health service can add extra support.

Frequently asked questions

Can AI replace professional advice?

No. For serious issues, talk to your GP, school or a specialist charity.

Should I share details about my child?

Keep it general: age and topic are usually enough.

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