Write a dating profile

beginner⏱ Rough guide only: an evening of rewrites

Last reviewed by Amara Lewis

Can AI write my dating profile?

It can give you a great first draft. Tell ChatGPT or Claude a few specific facts about you, what you're looking for and your preferred tone, and ask for three short versions without clichés, each ending with an easy question. Then rewrite it in your own words, keep it honest and leave out identifying details.

Copy-and-paste prompt

Swap the bits in [square brackets] for your own details.

Help me write a dating profile for [app]. About me: [3–5 facts, hobbies, what a good weekend looks like]. Looking for: [what you want]. Tone: [warm/funny/understated]. Keep it under [word limit] words, avoid clichés like 'love to laugh', include one specific detail and one question that's easy to reply to. Give me 3 versions.

How to do it

  1. Open ChatGPT or Claude and start a new chat.
  2. Copy the prompt below and replace everything in [square brackets] with your details.
  3. Ask for three versions in different tones and mix the best lines.
  4. Rewrite it in your own words so it sounds like you.

What a good answer looks like

Illustrative example written by the AI My Day team to show the kind of answer you can expect. It is not a captured tool output, and real results vary.

Version 1 (warm): Weekend me is usually at a car-boot sale hunting for old cookbooks, then trying one terrible recipe from 1972. Looking for someone kind who doesn't mind being a taste-tester. What's the best thing you've ever found second-hand? Version 2 (funny): …

Recommended tools

Both are good at turning a few facts about you into warm, specific writing – and at making it sound less cheesy.

ChatGPT

A general-purpose AI assistant you can chat to by typing, talking or sharing photos.

Free planbeginner

Claude

An AI assistant known for clear, natural writing and handling long documents.

Free planbeginner

Top tips

  • Be honest – matches meet the real you.
  • Don't include your workplace, address or surname.

Frequently asked questions

Is it dishonest to use AI?

Not if the facts are true and you're happy it sounds like you. Don't use AI to pretend to be someone you're not.

What about messaging matches?

AI can suggest openers, but conversations go better in your own words.

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